There is no desire in the human heart more powerful than the desire to be loved by hot companions. A lot of people find that they can get through a lot, but trying to get past the feeling of not being loved is a bridge too far for many.
There have even been famous cases of infants in Soviet orphanages who died because they were not held and shown affection. This just goes to show you how important love is in our lives. That is why it is so difficult to go through a broken relationship and also why we want to show you here and now how you might go about trying to fix one.
Think About The Goals Of Both Partners
Are you fulfilled in the relationship that you have selected for yourself? Does it really bring you all of the joy and love that you expected out of it? You should ask these questions to your partner. Have a sit down conversation about where the two of your stand and where you would like to go into the future. You might be surprised by just how much your communication has broken down since the last time you spoke. If that is the case, it is time to rekindle the conversations.
Is Breaking Up Taking The Easy Way Out?
Do you feel that you and your partner have decided to call it quits because it is honestly the best decision for the two of you? Perhaps it is possible that you are just making this choice because it is the easy way out. You and your partner might be able to keep things together by simply deciding that you just want to push through it.
Breaking up may seem like the right thing to do when things are not quite perfect or after you have just had a fight. However, most healthy relationships include arguments at some points in time, so maybe you should remember this when you are having an argument with your loved one.
Questions to ask before breaking up:
- Am I asking too much of my partner?
- Am I breaking up because I am hurt in the moment?
- Is the relationship still headed in the right direction?
- Do we have the same dreams about our relationship (i.e. both wanting to have children)?
Listen, And Then Listen Some More
To try to save a broken relationship you must be willing to listen to your significant other. These are troubling issues and many people immediately want to jump to talking about their own thoughts and feelings. The problem with this is that those who are trying to save a relationship must realize that listening to the thoughts and feelings of their partner is a lot more important.
You do not have to agree with all that your partner is saying, and you don’t even have to fully understand everything about where they are coming from. As long as you are listening to what they are saying, you just might be able to mend your relationship.